One word for the new social skills...DB'ing!! I kept faking it and faking it over the last 6 months and now I look back with disgust at how I used to be. I decided that even if my wife and I never get back together why would ANYONE want to be with the guy I was? I was weak, shy, heavily introverted and also cynical towards the world in general. I felt like I was always getting a raw deal and everyone was out to get me. I could also be funny at the same time but my jokes began to only annoy my wife. So, she found/finds herself attracted to another man and I am begining to understand her. I DO NOT condone her behaviour but I can see why she thought she had no other choice.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
