Very nervous about tomorrow. Especially if she tries to talk about the OM moving up or anything else to do with the R. Arwen_in_NJ suggested treating her just like a cousin when it comes to chit chat but not sure what to say if she brings R or OM stuff up - do I just tell her I don't want to discuss R issues or do I let her talk?
One of the best pieces of advice I got was to say something like:
"There's really only two things to talk about: our marriage, and the potential end of our marriage. I won't talk about our marriage so long as you've invited a third person into it (alt. version: "as long as you're having an affair"), and the second is really best left to the lawyers, I think."
