Mishka, this is good advice. I know s10 has met with the school counselor, but not in the type of environment you suggest above. I need to find one, because i dont think W will.

Church was great. I attend one of those large churches where the sermon is also done live on the internet at 6:00pm. Today's gist was that when confronted with a decision, you must make those decisions based on what God would desire you to do. What would glorify him? It resonated so much with me that I was hoping W would attend tonight. She called at 7:00 so I knew she had not attended. I mentioned that she should lsiten or watch it when she had a chance. But, who knows if she will.

I watched it again tonight because it was so good.

But whether she watches or not, it did, as you suggested bring me substantial peace. Part of the sermon mentioned how sometimes we do things that others (including our family and friends) don't understand - he specifically mentioned staying or working on a marriage that appears to be at its end. We know it is the right thing to do. Wow, does that strike home???????? I felt like this was the 4th sermon in a row directed towards me. (or the other 50% of the church population, right??)

Now if I only had one of these per night, I would get by OK. LOL


ME 41, Her 41
M 18.5 years
T 19.5 years
s - 12, 10
Bomb 7/12/09
Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09
She moved out 10/1/09 - present