Hey Sweetie, just catching up. I have to tell you, you are one class act.

I wouldnt engage with Tinkerbell. It would all be lost on her and way over her head. I could see, though, why you would want to knock her upside her head. I could hold her while you do it - Oops, did I just say that out loud? My bad.

Anyway, this is all a learning process and I have no doubt that you, with your wonderful, easy going manner and sense of humor, will get through it like a champ.

I would tell xh that you need to think about Christmas if you are not sure. See where you both are at them.

And of course, you are pulling for him because that's the kind of person you are.