Do you have witnesses you can call regarding some of your h's antics?
I asked the kids about the moving car incident and S15 didn't remember or pay attention. He's pretty seriously autistic, & maybe he tries to block out. I remember S15 actually smiling I think realizing his dad was being an a$$, but D9 was worried and concerned and asking questions like what's going on. She does remember it, but asking her to testify is not something I would want to do.
I don't have any witnesses that I know of to the school incident. I saw a couple kids walk by while he was cussing/yelling but I didn't know the specific kids or who they were. There was a teacher nearby that saw him following me maybe, right before it happened there is a gate/door by her room and I shut it almost in X's face b/c I was just trying to slow him down. Her classroom was about 10 feet away. I guess I could ask her if she saw it and if so how much she saw. He was in between the one classroom and the parking lot during most of it (I was walking towards my crossing guard friend the whole time, but he didn't see it he said. He was too far away. And if he had been there, X prob. wouldn't have done it.
Also, D9's grades/class info goes home on Monday nights which is when X has the kids. I had received the info the very first Monday before we switched, and I left the material/newsletter in D9's backpack for X to look at the following day (after I did).
One of D9's friends mentioned her 6 page book report maybe 9 or 10 days ago, and I talked to another mom in the class and she said the book report info had gone home a long time ago. Every spare minute we weren't at church or art club, D9 had to spend on the book report this weekend. I would have loved to have an extra few days even on it. And if D9's friend hadn't mentioned it, I doubt D9 would have had a book report tomorrow, and she would have been devastated as X hadn't helped her pick out a book or anything about it. She has another project due Tues. for science, and I didn't get that info either. I'm letting X do that with her since I didn't have time this weekend anyway and didn't have the info on it.
I was wanting to email X and ask him to provide me with the info for her projects/reports and her grades. I think both parents should know about her projects so they can help her out when at each home. D9 said something about a pie chart with her progress(don't know what that is) and there's the class newsletter I don't get from him.
He constantly emails how I don't want the kids to succeed in ps, but he does stuff like that, which seems like he's more interested in keeping me out of the loop than D9 getting her stuff done. I was thinking about emailing him that I need that info, and doing a blind copy to my L? Ideas on that?
