I hope church brought you some comfort today. I know it does for me.
I think I asked this before, but have you checked into getting the kids into counseling? Generally, a pediatric psycologist will meet with the kids, then the parents, then all together. It's important that your W hear the kids' feelings in a neutral location with a neutral person present. She is living in her own little world and doesn't want to see how hurt her children are. That would mean that her selfish actions had consequences....GASP!
Please, get the boys to C ASAP.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!