Ms. H, I'm glad you posted an update. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and just hope that everything goes smoothly and you can settle on your "new" place next month. Just think, it's going to be all yours and your xh will not have the power to hold this new place over your head w/his idle threats.
As for him, he's got a lot of self discovery to do and you know what, many of them will not do the work. I have to agree w/you, many of them do not come back. Look at my little fruit cake...still living in fantasy land and still will not say the little shark's name around me, i.e., won't ever say "we did this or we did that". It's always "I this or that". Oh, well, they are the ones that truly lost out. Ms. H, you will go on and life will hold many good things for you. It's just getting to the other side that takes a long time. Once you are settled in your own place, things will begin to look up for you. Right now, you are in transition.
I'm sorry to read about your son's lyme situation. I do hope he's doing okay. I can't believe he's in school too. Where has the time gone? They grow up so fast!
I'm glad to see that you are still going to school. You'll do just fine and when you've got your degree...you'll be huge success. I've never doubted that one bit.
Please give the boys a hug and kiss for me and you take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
