I'm so confused right now. I'm going to put a lot of thought into what you all have said.
It's just that in California, H can file for D uncontested. If all he is asking for is separation and not D I have felt like this is good news. But your advice is leading me to reconsider.
You all know he put in the agreement five months of MC or the whole thing is null and void. You also know that if I don't agree to this, he will file for D.
But perhaps I should reconsider that D is a better option ... if I can get more alimony and the likelyhood of him returning is small anyhow. I will talk with my L this week and keep you posted.
I haven't been this depressed and confused in many many years.
