Pup, I am on board with you here, and saffie as well.
If there is any chance of the husband finding out..its best that he learns it from you, whatdidido.
And unless you are planning on changing all contact info asap...I suspect that time when your husband learns is soon approaching...
It's gonna hurt him...but the hurt will be offset by your voluntary honesty...if you wait too long, you lose the chance to volunteer honesty...and the harm will come full force on your home and you will regret not speaking up when you had the chance...
If this was me, i would want to know too...and more importantly I would want to know that my partner handled it the most protective way possible for our home...
