I figured i should check in again... everything is still well a mess!
W still wont get a job so I am still paying for everything myself.. The inlaws are really starting to become more of a pain than anything (MIL keeps saying W is so much better but yet tells me all these things W says that are all lies) and it just makes me so mad. I told MIL W sounds worse I talked to the detective that is going after W and i guess W has been at her parents house but refuses to answer the door. and MIL is getting pissy with the detective. he told me they have a meeting tuesday if she does not show he will issue a WARR. and bring her in.
Im so fustrated lately... none of the W actions make any sense yet alone how I can keep paying for everything myself. oh and MIL says i need to stop living out of my means (WTF? only thing I have that is not needed is my internet,tv and phone. which I already have scheduled it to be changed to a complete base option) I gave up talking to the inlaws its just more stress than i need. not to mention the little things are getting to me like MIL lost D8 coat at her house and keeps saying I never sent it with her.... it was cold out i made all 3 wear coats!
oh and the collections are getting worse now... i have her parents address and phone numbers on hand as of today. IDK they can take those calls now its not my problem they raised her