Fantastic DB'ing GAG, keeping the inner bunny at bay is so key to every thing we do! Without nailing the inner bunny we can so easily walk into the "you havent changed at all" routine that H's perfect along with their script. Its good to hear that not only does SIL see sense but has also become a semi-ally, so can input occasional common sense to H.
I know for me the concern that my H was choosing his new friends based on the "you need to be happy" factor meant that I was doomed if they were filling his head with this, so I was quite pleased to find that the one he spent the most time with is very pro marriage.
Keep at it your doing so well, Im sure it wont be long before more success!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!