Hope,

First, I agree with the others, don't discuss any agreements with your H- let the two Ls talk that kind of stuff over. The only exception would be the counseling. This nonsense tying the MC in with the legal separation agreement is BS. Your H needs to stop with the games already. A few sessions with a good C would be a very good investment in time/money right now for you both. Just my 2 cents. wink

M: 41
W: 39
S: 11
S: 10
D: 4
1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09
EA began: 2/14/09
EA discovered: 3/1/09
I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself
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