Her proposal is totally unacceptable. If your lawyer is advising you to take it then you will live to regret it, and you have the wrong lawyer.
The compromise position is equal placement. You should try for more. Your kids deserve both parents and if they do not spend overnights then you will be nothing but a visitor.
You are a doctor so that means no overnights?
You need to adjust your schedule. The kids come first my friend. Make it clear that you cannot pull ER on certain nights. If that is not acceptable at the hospital, find an alternate medical field.
If she plans to quit work that is not your problem. If fact that is a common threat - the judge can force her to work.
You are in the home stretch. Compromise now and you will die inside. Trust me here, I get 40% and I am sick about it, even though I get every other weekend and half the summer and half the holidays and schoiol breaks - or 50% of the time they are not in school. Sick about it.
