Its Sunday now--after I told him i knew about the OW and that I wasnt angrybut flet bad he flet so all alone he had to turn to someone else., and I am second guessing myself. Do I go completely dark? After he left the house yesterday afternoon he immediately called her --she called back with 2 long 30 and 20 minute phone calls (I know I shouldnt look online but I am weak). He said yesterday she is waiting for him to decide, he also said he has not made up his mind. How can you make a decision when you dont even spend time with one of the two people you are deciding on--although I guess yeterday counts for something. He also did not tell me who the OW is ( I am waiting to see if he will-but mentioned her name several times as we talked about his office)
