W said she has been detaching from me for a couple of year. She needs to get out but I'm trying to talk her into a place on her own instead of her friends house. There's something she's missing in her life and another man that she hasn't known very long isn't the answer. She admitted she doesn't think it would be good either but has no where to go. I went away to my daughters overnight and when I saw W at home the next evening I had small conversations about daughters life and just chit chat while we ate. She said we need to talk, I said what possibly could you have to say, I know you want to leave. She thought since I was talking I thought everything was ok. After listening to her for a while I told her if she wants to go now just leave. And she looked stunned, just sat there.It's like she wanted me to be miserable. I was stress free at my daughters and it carried over. So that's where I'm at. I have a prelimanary appointment at a MC. Should I cancel.