Divorced and want to reconcile...

[dday101798]

Keep hanging in there mar, there WILL be drawbacks from time to time. Yeah, there's that word again, time. Just like the statistics say, a seperation will last on average a number of months the same in years you were together. I don't know the saying for how long it takes to get back together completely, but it certainly won't be overnight ya know.

It just simply sounds like your XH had a drawback moment. Maybe he talked with someone who might of triggered something to make him feel uneasy? Just the same as there is a 'catalyst friend' to encourage a spouse to walk away, there is one if not many to remind the LBS how hurt they were and to think clearly about a possible R again.

It all still sounds positive, so one day at a time, and put yourself in his shoes when you don't understand his actions.