Hi Augtan, Trapt has great advice. Just catching up on your posts I am totally confused! In the last few days you've said you don't want H back and you do want H back....
Sounds like you are conflicted about what you want.
Sounds like you'd like to forgive H, but don't think you can or do't want to. You are still hurting. You haven't detached. You are taking the MLC crap personally (We've all done that) and reacting.
Your family is an obstacle to you geting H back, IF you want H back. If you decide you really want H back, then stop sharing everything with your family. Vent here.
Re-read DB. Figure out what you want. Figure out if you CAN forgive.(There is a great book by Janis Spring " How Can I Forgive You? The Courage to Forgive and the Freedom Not To", that I highly recommend).
Focus on doing the work YOU need to do.
Last edited by kjensen; 10/18/0912:36 PM.
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.
