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Augtan
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Originally Posted By: Augtan
So, I know I made a mistake tonight, I can't help it sometimes.
Keep doing this and keep getting more of the same. "I can't help it" makes NO sense.
Of course you can...... Do better....be better.
You need to reread DB and you REALLY need to read and learn about MLC.
You are right smack in the middle of all this crazy drama. The more you act like this, the more reason YOU give him never to return.
If he is truly in MLC he CANNOT think like you and me.
STOP expecting him to act normal.
STOP trying to reason with him.
STOP talking about the OW.
You say you have been dbing?
This ain't it.....all of this is anti.
It's no wonder you're confused and spun out right now.
Do the work, you most certainly CAN help your mistakes, that's what this is all about.
Reread the DB book. Read and learn all about depression and mlc. There is a ton of great information in the mlc resources.
Don't stand still.
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