Maybe I was wrong. Perhaps you are willing to have an open M and allow this OM to sleep with your W......and even adjust to her living away from you so she can have more time with him........just as long as you get a little from time to time? Guess it was a good thing you didn't make that talk last night and then go to bed and she shows you how easily she can "work" you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
