I am staying level headed and cautious about all of this, remembering to believe none of what I hear and only half of what I see at this point. Monday will be interesting, one way or another, and I'm going to do my best to "act as if."
This is good MTNSpirit but for heaven's sake tread with extreme caution.
Read my earlier posts from about April to July 2008 as a warning. Many other men here could have written the same posts.
If she still has any contact with OM you are far better off staying dark.
The only thing that should satisfy you that there's no contact with OM is the extent to which she invites you to hold her accountable. Tell her what you require to be satisfied that no contact with OM is happening and if she baulks, you know she's leaving wiggle room for contact.
Her speech to the IC might simply be a ploy to get you back in contact so that you can meet the needs that OM isn't meeting.
I'm encouraged, but PLEASE tread carefully.
Good luck!
Last edited by GH31; 10/18/0906:10 AM.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
