Thanks, Mar. I agree that I can't be the only one to work on myself, or us; she'll need to be part of that process. She has expressed a willingness to go to counseling, and that's a big part of what I need to see for this to work. I felt in the beginning that we were at an impasse in so many areas, and that really is what led to the divorce. It should never have gotten that far but, since it did, I felt that someone needed to make concessions in order for the healing to begin and I love her so much I wasn't going to be too proud to start taking the necessary steps, at least on my end. Started with those baby steps and suddenly there's this huge leap! Keep us in your prayers!


Ron

M: 47
W: 50
D: 19
S: 16
Grandson: 21 months (now officially our son)
Married: 10/2/89
Divorced: 7/31/09
XW moved back home 11/12
Re-married 5/25/10