Hoping WAW will someday see through the fog....

[shellshockedga]

Thanks Sandi, but, we didnt need to wait too long. I feel the following is going to be filled with opportunitites from you, Coach, GIMA and others to beat me with 2x4s. I really need help and guidance.

I amde it through the afternoon with help from GIMA. Tonight, however, my s10 wanted to speak to mommy. So he called, and called and called and called. Finally she txted me to say she was at a bar watching the game and could not hear (plausible) so she would call beack later.

S10 asked to txt her, which is allowed and he asked her to come home (saddest thing) and then sent a long distressing txt to her.

she did not respond. I informed him that she loved her, but was busy. Then she calls back and yells at me for converting my s10 and s12 to my side. Something I have made sure not to do. i keep the party line "we have adult problems and we both love them very much."

Then..... backslide...she yells at me for letting him txt her and I tell her that she is his mom and needs to get her priorities straight.

Then I say the dreaded.,..... "Where are you?" Her response - "you dont need to know." (with OM at the game??????) who knows. She continued to rant at which time I hung up. She turned off her phone and the I left a message saying if were goign to build trust again we must be able to tell the other where we are only when asked.

Ok, I have battle gear on, please bash away.

I dont know what to do. My boys are both expressing there emotions in a big way with me. I asked them if they did this with her, and they said no, because when I am gone it is for travel. I can come home until work is done. She can come home anytime.

What do i do??????

I want to turn my phone off for the next 4 days. But I am not sure I can escape any conversation with her.

Go completely dark for the next week? I see her on Thursday. On Friday I have a chance to pull the mystery date (or real one)

I need help. Come one, come all bring your friends to bash and provide good constructive ctricisim. I do not want a "D"

Thanks -