You need to read Patrick Swayze's autobiography written with his wife. She left him. For a year but was meaning to leave him for good because she didn't think he would stop drinking and emotionally abusing her. She left. He took a year to get it together but it was her leaving that finally snapped him out of it. Patrick Swayze. Not some slim bucket or another sleaze ball....the hunk Patrick Swayze.
What I'm saying is your real husband is in there, but he's got on a drunk confused mask now that's taken over. You need to figure out what's right for you. How long can you do this?
