Had a wonderful day today. Visited the home a second time. Going back tomorrow to meet with the realtor to go over some details. Also, went downtown to spend the afternoon with my son. Had a blast.

Concerning my WAS, she did not show up today to pick up our son. That's two weeks in a row.

Here's the funny part. She sends me a text 30 minutes ago saying she will pick up our son tomorrow. Plus, she says she will be picking him up between 11-12 noon.

What is it with these MLC'ers and their control issues?

I guess its ok not to show up today. No phone call, text, or email saying I can't make it.

I love how she gives me a time range of when she will pick him up. Ok, honey. I will sit here and wait for you. I don't think so.

Too bad I will send her a text tomorrow morning telling her she is not allowed to take him since she blew of our son today.

From reading other situations on this board, I am expecting her control issues to get worse.

Is there anything else I should be worrying about besides control issues with my MLC'er? What behaviors do most MLC'ers have in common?


Me- 31 yrs old

Her- 33 yrs old

S- 3 yrs old

Bomb- 4/ 09

Moved out- 6/ 09