Logistically, I can't march the kids out in the snow at 2AM if I get called to the ER. I'd appreciate some thoughts.
Then as a physician you hire a nanny that stays overnight while you have them.
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shilty parenting time: alternating weekends (acceptable). 4-7 Wednesday following her weekend and 4-7 Tues, Wed other week -2 weeks, nonconsecutive, in the summer. -she wants one half the religious holidays (after she waffled multiple times)
What do you want FIB? How can we help guide you without that info?
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no radius listing on moving distance -she wants maintenance
No and no. Do not allow her this " no radius" bullshitt as she will move away with your children. You and I both know that is exactly her angle. Why would you pay her spousal support when she practiced infidelity? If your lawyer believes in this, get a new one.
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paragraph in there that says the kids have input on whether they want to be with the other parent (???)
Unacceptable, it almost dares the parents to try and persuade the kids. They are children and until they are of legal age in your state they do not get a vote. Plain and simple.
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STBXW is leaving the house; the house will have to go up for sale; I am responsible for all costs re: the sale
The cost of selling your house should first and foremost come out of any equity from the sale first. Her lawyer sounds like a sneaky manipulative lawyer, not shocking considering who he/she is representing.
Stand up FIB, fight for what is right and what you want.
