Soooo, today brought my s to his soccer game, Ex showed up too. He seemed a little wierd, don't know why? We had tentative plans to take our s to get pumpkins. It's always been a "family" tradition of mine and the Ex is well aware of that, of course. But when the game was over we talked a bit and then he said his goodbye, said he had plans to see a mutual friend of ours (they actually play music together). That was fine, but when we tentatively planned on something depending on the weather, and the weather held out, I just get confused when there's no follow through and no pre discussion. Even our s was asking why we weren't going.
I was kind of uncomfortable with how we left it so what did I do? I texted my Ex and said, that I know he's busy and maybe my traditions aren't his and that if he'd rather go with just he and our s and I can go with my s and I separately that was ok, and I'd just work on letting our s know that.
I got a call in response and he just said we'd have to look at the weather and try and go on a good day because he knew it was important to our s that we both go, and then he invited me to a Halloween party at a mutual friends house that he was planning on bringing our s to next weekend. I was shocked! I was cool, said I'd like to go, that I know our s likes to see us together and if that makes him happy then that's what I'm all about. He is my focus and all I'm trying to do is the Right thing.
