my W doesn't regret her affair

[bluerain]

Im glad that you told her that you wont be in an open M! I think thats a big one. And the quote from antlers was excellent. Maybe you could even use it on her.

I also agree that shes stalling, hopefully shes just a little scared. But really, what shes keeping the OM around as a back-up plan in case your changes arent for real? Thats not how it works! Hopefully the next week gives her the time she needs. Everyone preaches patience, but dont give her that benefit until shes ended this A and deserves it!