It's too hard sometimes

[bluerain]

Sorry Mark, there are just so many on here who do have OM's! There was a sitch where the man was almost stalking the W and frankly, I was starting to get a little worried for him.

Pretty much everything else that I said, I still think is applicable here though. Im glad that you got some meds on board. I did too, and it made a big difference for me. I dont use them anymore, but when this whole mess started, I needed them.

Thats the point of detaching! Isnt it great! Now, if she does come crawling back, its your choice, your terms. And thats what women want- a strong man who is in control of himself. After 18 months of being separated and making all kinds of wonderful changes for myself, when I did see H again, I realized that he really hadnt done anything with himself at all. And I also realized that I didnt really like him very much anymore!