DID XH M OW or not??

[Silent Chrleader]

Hi, peace.

Yes, my H is with OW #2. I used to think that I should hold a grudge with her because H told her sister (and her I'm sure) that we were seperated and in C (he didn't tell them that it wasn't MC!). Well, I think that they think that he "gave it the college try" through year of C to no avail, and then when he decided he wasn't going to keep his promise to come home at the end of the six months, that's when he "officially" got with her. I'm sure she told him she wasn't getting with him until our M was through....... but that didn't stop them dating. And her sister began fixing them up the minute she found out about the seperation. I hate them for that!!! It galls me so much!! They are "minister's daughters". F'ing hypocrites is what they are!!!! They provided the catalyst for STBXH to not even be willing work on our M. And I don't know that I will ever get over that one...... I hope I never see either one of them...... I don't know how I would react.

As for wishing your H was "dependable". I hear ya there.....but then, my STBXH is doing well at playing the upstanding guy right now, and it really doesn't make me feel much better! Of course I am eternally grateful for it in one sense, but in another, it hurts because I don't see why we can get along so well and yet not work on the M.......

Anyway, hang in there, peace.

I still wich you would get on th alt so we could connect and maybe call ....... what part of the country are you in?