ACJ, You always have choices, ACJ. You can always have dreams and fantasies too. There is nothing wrong with that. Wishing for what could have been or what might happen positively with our ML'ers is healthy. You get into trouble if you dwell or obsess on the dreams and distort them with reality. I have a God that allows the impossible to happen, who can restore what was. That may or may not be the plan he has for me. My life is in limbo. I am just waiting for God to show the path I will take. I can't control what I dream, I am simply just sharing them.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11