Newbie.....dealing with a MLC'er....

[Amy40]

Amy,

First of all, its my faith in God that has allowed me to be strong during these times. There have been some days where I felt like my world was collapsing.

I am glad to read that. THAT I will buy, because faith CAN sustain you through this trial. Without knowing that, I was pretty much waiting for the breakdown. If HE is your strength and you keep your eyes on Him, then that may never happen. I am more confident now in your state of mind.

Luckily, I have an awesome son and great friends and family to help. Plus, when I was lurking around this board, I saw others were dealing with the same things I was going through. So, I realized I wasn't alone.

I was able to use that information for my benefit. So far, all that information has been extremely valuable.

Once I joined, I believe I was further along than others that have come to this board. I do have questions just like others do. But, I have finally come to the realization that this is something she has to deal with on her own.

Very good. Many people that come here do not have much of a support system in place at home. Thus, this board is IT. And while that is a blessing, it can also be a curse - because we come here and post virtually 24/7 - that isn't healthy. You seem to be someone who knows how to strike a good balance in life. That is rare.

Finally, I am glad that you (Amy) have continued to offer me valuable information and advice. For that I am grateful. Thanks. I am glad to have offered something that has been helpful to you.

While she deals with her issues, I will improve myself and make sure that I am the best father and dad for my little boy. That is a wise & admirable decision.

I have to go. Time to play hide n seek with the little one.......

That's awesome!