Well hope everybody is having a good evening. Today was okay. Two games in a row, so spent almost the whole day with kids and exH. Kids were good, ex was fine. He went out of his way to be nice to me. Funny since I let him have it last night.

This is a learning process for us. Just like this whole journey has been a growing, learning process. We knew how to be a married couple for 12 years, and now the dynamic is very different, yet that undertone of how it used to be is still there too. Of course it's going to be strange and awkward for a while while we kind of learn how to be a divorced couple parenting our kids. After the game the kids wanted ex to take them to mcdonals, so we parted ways and they left. Overall the day was fine.

We talked quite a bit and he "seems" to have a plan for his trying to get his life together and his dad is helping him, so all I can do is hope to see a positive outcome for him. I did see "flashes" of his old personality today, so maybe, just maybe, he will fight his way back. Not to me, just closer to his old personality. Who knows.

Funny that even after all that I have been through, in my heart I am pulling for him.

Last edited by SoConfused; 10/18/09 12:01 AM.
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