W just told me she wants out, and it sounds like all the other stories in here. She has been in touch with an old classmate and feel like she would enjoy doing things he enjoys.Not sure she ever felt "that way" about me.When we did do things together it wasn't fun. Says been going through the motions for years. I was on here 3 years ago on MLC section. during that time I gave her space. but moticed most of her activities didn't include me. She agreed to go to MC for me,but said "why so they can tell me how I should feel". This forum helped me stay sane before so I'll be back to read this and other post. I just don't know how anything can change as cold as she is to me.She loves me, thinks I'm a sweetheart, but feels we are just friends. There's alot of good people on here and I thank you in advance for your support. Me-48 W-44