Thanks everyone for the comments, it makes me feel better hearing from those who know what I am going through. Talking to friends and family about this situation is hard, especially when they have never been through it before.
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D talk-7/28/09 W Moved out-9/01/09 W wants D-9/22/09 W doesnt want D-12/1/09 W Moved in/I Moved out-12/21/09 W wants D-1/19/10 D Final-04/15/10