Is this the end of my marriage?

[P17]

What ultimately changed your mind to ask for a second chance and ditch the OM?

Actually, I would have to say when I found this board and reached out for help. I had enough sense to realize I was in trouble. When people here cared enough to tell me what to do instread of telling me what I had done wrong.....then I had the information I needed and gained the strength to do what needed to be done.

If only my W would be of the same view / opinion. I just don't see her doing that.

Glad you were reminded of what is important in your life. A lot of us, my included, forget that and end up here for the wrong reasons!