WAW and the husband that wants her back.

[Dia]

Lighten up the mood. Laugh at something. Let your facial expression be pleasant. Go to the bathroom, take a few deep breaths and relax. STAY relaxed.

Don't try too hard to engage her in conversation. Play with D. Laugh some more.

Think of your W like a lamp in the corner. You'll look up and pay attention if something unusual happens like the bulb going out but otherwise, it's just a lamp. Nobody stresses over a lamp. Your focus should be on your D.