I think the ultimate goal would be for each to be independent where they could still do their own thing with no hurt feelings and choose to be together by themselves and again with their kids. Everyone still able to keep their interests and their own identity in their relationship and yet still come together and be a couple.

I hope that makes sense.

kat

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