when he felt he had to accommodate my needs that seemed unreasonable to him
not to be negative here but this sounds familiar to me...selfish? self centered?
Prior statement nothwithstanding, that is some serious introspection K. I am not sure I understand half of it. Prior to all this, I never really believed in all this psychobabble about our past....childhood....parents....etc....through all of you, I have come to the realisation that things are not always black or white. I still try to compartmentalize my opinions (black or white) but grey is becoming more pallatable. If nothing else, this has opened my horizons to what people go through on this journey we call life.....
As always, I am pulling for your happiness and that of your loved ones....hopefully one day that will include your husband. Until then stop reading these self help books and pickup a trashy romance novel or some of those fashion magazines....you are starting to sound like you know what you are talking about.
