I put that in O'dog's thread. I realize I'm 'fixing' here instead of validating, so I apologize.

The answers I gave DO work, but the first step is valuing yourself enough to implement them.

The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137