For those with a WAS...How do you cope?

[courts0818]

Thanks guys. At this point, I no longer think the offer is there. He's so weird. He asked if I wanted to go in a text message. I didn't respond right away bc I wanted to think about it. Then, to be sure I understood what he was asking, I replied, "You mean go out with you and *?". That probably wasn't the best thing to ask, but he was texting about a couple of different possibilities for the night and I wanted to make sure I understood. Anyway, he never answered my text and now he's here - acting like he never said anything about me going with them.

When I asked what the plan was for our DD tonight, he said he was gonna watch her until I'm home from church. Ugh...I just don't get him.

I thought about texting him from church and saying, it's fine if his mom wants to keep DD (that alone is a big 180 for me). And then I would say bc I made plans.

If his mom doesn't watch DD, then he'll know I'm sitting at home doing nothing bc I won't be home from church until 9:30pm or so. And by that time, he knows I'm not gonna go anywhere with DD.

I guess I'm in whatever mode...I probably should have just said, no thanks to begin with.

Ahhhhhh..............