Welcome, BM. Sad story.
When your husband wrote and asked for forgiveness, did he say he was done with OWs, massage parlors, etc, or did you just infer that?
My sitch does not involve infidelity, so I may not have as much to offer as some others, but be patient. They'll be along.
Good for you for instinctively and immediately beginning to make changes for you. hat kind of changes are they?


Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac