For those with a WAS...How do you cope?

[Gardener]

Courts,

On the other hand, I've really wanted to show H that the fun side of me still exists - and tonight would be a good opportunity to show him that I'm still fun. It will be a big night in our area bc of the Nortre Dame game. Should I go, have some drinks and just be fun and not really concern myself with what he's doing?

At first I was going to say don't go.But how about go separately/meet them there, have a coupla drinks, show him 'the fun aside of you still exists', and leave early saying you gotta be somewhere else?

This way, you go along, show you're a lot of fun (pour it on), leave (mysterious) and more importantly leave H and friend talking (inevitably) about you?

Anyway, my lurking, rambling $.02.