It' a HUGE load off my back. We're actually talking & being more friendly now that we're both on the same page. The M isn't any better for it, though. W said she's not sure if she's going to file for D right away or wait until she gets her head straight...but later mentions that most of the places she's looked at have 1 year leases. Sounds permanent to me.
And I'm not sure I'd take her back if she begged. So I'm treating the S as a transition period before we get a D. Very unfortunate...we're both going to be MUCH worse off financially when W moves out & only seeing our S 1/2 the time is going to hurt. There aren't any winners in this situation.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09
