Because then she'll be in that most unenviable of positions for the Walkaway -- getting what she wanted. And not having you to blame.
YEP!!! This is exactly what I did. Hasn't changed my sitch and probably won't...but I'm not standing in her way. She has the life she wanted and I'm doing just fine without her.
Me45 (D11 from 1st marriage) W43 (D20 & D16 from 1st marriage) M4 Bomb 6/16/09 W wants D W moved out 8/29/09 I sent her D paperwork 9/25/09...I'm done