Hey Gardener,
Thanks for that, yes, I kinda suspected that was the case -- guess I am just looking for that "magic bullet" like all of us.

Was there anything specific that you remember that did (or could of) helped ?

Thanks

NSD

Me 47
WAW 48
No Kids
M-20y
T-24y
B#1 2-20-09
B#2 4-23-09-WAW Moved Out
B#3 3-8-10-WAW Filed for D
My Sitch:http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1823907#Post1823907