Your feeling do count. If she can't talk and negotiate like a sane person ...oh well.
I find it fascinating that we are concerned about making them mad. I fall into that category too, ut what really intrigues me is that my H said he didn't want to make me mad. Of course, I had to ask, what he thought I was going to do....leave him? He just said he needed to figure out why it bothered him.
Whatever you decide to do, I know you'll handle it well.
