Okay I need advice QUICK! H told me he is going out with a guy he does business with - I've been out with this guy too. He's crazy, but fun. Anyway, we were trying to figure out what we are going to do with DD bc I'm volunteering at church tonight. H said his mom could watch her. Then he asked if I wanted to go out with them tonight (when I'm done at church). ??????? What do I do??????

I'm doing SO GOOD at detaching...FINALLY! This weekend will be one month since I stopped texting/asking/obessing over H. I've been GAL and making great progress. If I go tonight, will that show that I want to spend with him? Will that ruin all of my hard work?

On the other hand, I've really wanted to show H that the fun side of me still exists - and tonight would be a good opportunity to show him that I'm still fun. It will be a big night in our area bc of the Nortre Dame game. Should I go, have some drinks and just be fun and not really concern myself with what he's doing?

I need help!!!!!

This is also a confusing weekend for me - bc this weekend marks 1 full year since H moved out.


Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010