Where do you begin on this journey? Wife hasn't really talked to me in almost 3 months...I've been trying to follow the rules I've read in the website as far as (i) moving on stay active (ii) don't inquire on her whereabouts (iii) stay positive (iv) don't pressure the discussion...etc. Things are not worse, but they aren't better either. I've essentially turned to work for solace and to occupy my mind. I figured by now she would have pulled me aside to ask what is next....nope. Don't want to initiate the discussion if it means that I have broken a golden rule. Please comment.