Someone asked IRL about the Saga of Smiley's Person, so I've been going through the (text files) of the old posts. What a roller-coaster! I don't know if these links work or not -- and I'm too lazy to test them -- but this takes it through the first half and a bit of the year.
One really good thing about going through them was that they've reminded me just how challenging a dynamic this process really is. I can watch WAW push-and-retreat, flirt-and-resist, hin und her, kreuz und quer (ist das nicht ein Schnitzelbank?), in my own reactions.
Which just illustrates how important it is to Define Your Path and Walk It, regardless of what WAS does or doesn't do. Otherwise you're in pure react mode.
