GIMA, I wouldn't get too hung up on which label to apply to your sitch. I see a lot of "he's MLC", "she's WAW with a little MLC", etc, all the time.
Does it really matter if you're officially "piecing?" I learned just last night that I was "piecing" my marriage back together probably 6 months before I really knew it, and about 8 months before I moved to this section of the boards. If I'd have known earlier that we were piecing, would it have changed anything I was doing? NOPE.
You're doing great GIMA. She's getting there. Keep up the good work. And I'll give you a little hint. There's a ton more traffic on the Newcomers board where you currently reside. Even if you are "piecing", I wouldn't be in a big hurry to move over here. Once you get here, the only people that typically follow your threads are the people that were your biggest supporters on your original board (Newcomers, Infidelity, etc).
Patience, Patience, Patience....
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.